Was I cheating on my wife? In regaurds to the question Is this cheating?
Back in 2004 I had gotten into a little trouble with the law and found myself with a DUI conviction, before I met my wife today. Anyway so I called my agent for help and she did me a favor by not informing the corporate office of my new conviction therefor I continued to pay my normal payment of $62.00 a month for car insurance. The insurance payment would have gone up to almost $200.00 a month. So for 4 years I payed my normal rate thanks to her kindness. Just the other day I had to change my policy because I purchased a new vehicle so she said I would need to get her the vin#, and off my hip I offered to go to lunch so I could sign the policy and also it was the least I could do for saving me $4800.00 over the coarse of 4 years. IS THIS CHEATING? Thanks PS My wife wanted me to add I didn’t notify her first and prior to the incident we had discussed approaches such as gift card and fruit basket. Dose anyone like fruit baskets?
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no its not cheating, but you could have told her first….
it’s not cheating… it’s business..
well you did technically cheat the insurance company but i don’t see any cheating on your wife here. Not telling your wife isn’t cheating it’s lying. If you had any intent of actually flirting with her or doing more then THAT is cheating but from what i’ve read there was no intent of that. Just a ‘thank you’
I do not believe this was cheating. You didn’t have any intentions with this girl other then lunch to repay her for her doing you a favor. Cheating would be more if you pursued it and went further and had emotions/feelings with the other girl.
It’s not cheating but you shouldn’t keep things like this from your wife or she will think you ARE cheating and that could have consequences for years to come. Your wife could have come with you and your agent to lunch. Acting like you have something to hide is the worst thing you can do when it comes to matters of trust. If I were you, I wouldn’t let anything like this happen again. Keep your wife in the “circle’.